One step at a time, day by day is how things move forward in life in a sustainable way. Patience, kindness to ourselves, no comparison with others, just following our own path.
When we get seduced into fitting in and trying to make huge leaps, it never lasts.
If you think you want something badly it rarely comes. It builds a resistance and negativity. The fight actually creates the barrier.
If you let go, you either realise it wasn’t that important, or if it something that will enrich us, if we just focus on now things happen slowly but surely without any resistance.
Things come to those who surrender and are at peace.