It’s not the action, it’s the reaction

Action is good.

Reaction is not.

When we take action, we feel good.

When we react, we feel bad, we become the reaction, which is not the real us, it is just our mind and emotions.

Action happens now, the moment that we are alive and requires us to be present. It leads to change, it leads to an outcome, it makes a difference.

Reaction is based on the past and on future fears, things that do not exist. It leads to anger, frustration, argument, hate and negativity.

Let go, accept what is, do not become the reaction, peacefully and calmly take action.

You should do…

We all fall into this, telling others what they should do or think, often with aggression and force, especially if it is something that generates a lot of emotions within us. We become righteous and indignant with others who aren’t on our side.

‘You should vote’, ‘you should be this’, ‘you should be that’, ‘you should eat only this’ and so on. ‘We are right’ and that justifies our act of telling others.

The challenge with this strategy is that whether we are right or wrong, it is just our opinion and people are able to hold a different one without being told. It is no one’s place to tell others, especially as no one likes being told what to do or their opinion is wrong. It never warms people to another view and instantly creates a barrier.

Change comes from within and showing our example to the world and perhaps inspiring them to follow our lead.