Be first

What we feel others don’t give us can easily be changed. So if we feel unloved, unwanted, not paid attention to, left out, ignored or not respected…we blame others, our ego makes it their fault.

Instead of looking to others to give it to us or to blame, we can step away from our ego and be first and start giving it to the world. So we can give respect, love, attention, kindness, and understanding, in fact, much more. When we become a giver we become positive and send out positive energies.

Amazingly, very soon all the things we feel that we didn’t get come to us and more than we perhaps expected.

Don’t wait for others to change, be first.

Perspective

We can always find something bad and then we can dwell on it. The mind loves drama and its ego loves story of ‘poor little me’.

What if we set out to seek all the good and be content with what we already have? In fact, be grateful for all we have not dissatisfied with what we don’t have.

Life is all about perspective.