The challenge with advice is the adviser assumes that others want what they want from life, see life through their lens and actually wanted their advice. The person often just wants another to understand them, to truly hear them and to be a light for them.
Best always to let others be, listen as in without evaluation and only offer an example of your life as perhaps something that might be inspirational. Telling others your view is rarely of any help.
We are responsible for ourselves…that’s all.
We cannot walk other people’s paths for them. They have to heal their own pain, find their own path, take their own journey. The responsibility is theirs and only they will know the answer for themselves from within and not from their mind or ours.
We cannot heal them, advise them or defuse their own inner problems.
We are not here to save everyone, they do not need saving, they just have to learn their own way, find their path, make their own light.
We can provide them with our empathy, our non-judgemental listening, we can share our own path as an example that they may be lifted by, we can share our light with them.
We all have all the wisdom we need deep within our soul from the moment we are born, yet we are conditioned to turn to the limited knowledge of our mind, which can only draw on memories of what has happened to us up to this moment in our life.
The wisdom of the entire universe is within our soul and beyond our limited mind.