Want to change something?

If we want to change something, and of course, that is our choice completely, then we have to be prepared to make sacrifices and to build habits.

Nothing will change by chance and no point in relying on ‘gurus’, books, or others. Change is our responsibility alone and is an inside job.

When we choose something we want to change, then we have to monitor how we behave in regards to the change we want to make. No good if we want to be more patient, for example, and not noticing when we are still impatient. We can choose to carry on with the short-term ‘easy’ of ‘well, I’ll change that later’ or we can say to ourselves ‘I see that is not how I want to behave now, and I’m going to endeavour to not do that again’.

Change is always personal and if we feel there is nothing to change, that’s ok too as none of us are broken. However, unless we take constant regular steps towards making a change and monitoring it, then it won’t happen.

Facing uncomfortable

If we want growth, different, interesting, adventure, to feel life…then we have to be brave enough to face uncomfortable.

It’s by facing the brutal internal truth, by being willing to walk our path despite others, by being vulnerable enough to live the uncomfortable that we become our true self.

We cannot migrate to our authentic self by not being willing to face uncomfortable.

It’s got to be worth it, right?