The more we try the less it happens.
When we let go of the pressure, the resistance and the negativity then life flows and the universe brings us everything that we need.
We just maybe are looking for the wrong things, just let go and allow life to unfold freely.
If we step away from the mind and its noisy mindstreams of repeating thought and conditioning, we reach a state of consciousness. We are truly awake and we are able to access our true essence.
We are able to be in a state on just being, where there is not the pressure or obsession of the mind to be constantly busy doing something.
Boredom and frustration come because the mind wants us to be constantly busy, where our inner soul is at peace and able just to be.
Busy is neither good nor bad, it is just the mind that makes it so.