We don’t own others. Even if we’re parents, our children aren’t ours to own.
Others have to find their own path, suffer their own pain, faces their own challenges and sort themselves out, if they want to.
Others are their own unique souls, which we are all connected to via our own soul and essence.
All we need to do is be an example and share our love and light with them. Not be responsible or take ownership.
The challenge with advice is the adviser assumes that others want what they want from life, see life through their lens and actually wanted their advice. The person often just wants another to understand them, to truly hear them and to be a light for them.
Best always to let others be, listen as in without evaluation and only offer an example of your life as perhaps something that might be inspirational. Telling others your view is rarely of any help.
We are responsible for ourselves…that’s all.