When we choose judgement over empathy, we are not allowing ourselves to appreciate the other person’s circumstances. We do not know what is happening, or has happened, in another person’s life that may have conditioned them or caused them to react in a way that we may judge as incorrect.
If we choose to observe without evaluation and respond from a position of empathy and peace within us, then we may find that we are viewing others as the beautiful human soul that we all are and that we so often miss through our lens of judgement.
The choices we make all have consequences and they lead us to a unique path each time, some paths are not what we want. It is again another choice as to how we react.
We can choose to accept that the outcome is what it is, we gain a new experience from the outcome and we make a new choice and move on. Everything happens in the now, and what we do now is the only thing that can change our real conscious existence.
Alternatively, we can analyse everything, deny the outcome, react, feel emotions, pain and suffering within and take that forward and manifest further choices that will inevitably lead to the same outcomes again and again. This is what living in the past does, we analyse, we blame, we look for revenge, we resist, we suffer and then we project it all into the future as our guide and suffer fear and pain. It becomes a repeating pattern.
Letting go and accepting our choices and not making a judgement or evaluation brings us inner peace and then from our consciousness we manifest a new choice from a position of peace and not from the fear of the mind.