Other people’s mistakes

Hands up who has never made a mistake?

Yep, everyone put their hand up.

Yet we are always looking to blame others, judge people, point the finger and punish them for their mistakes. Catch them out, almost waiting to jump on another for messing up.

The reality is, we are in fact only looking at our own reflection. Judging ourselves.

Mistakes have already happened, so right now they are in the past, let go of them and let go of others mistakes too.

It’s very liberating and we can act without the cloud of blame to learn and move on.

Just do more of what went right

In the blame, judgement and critical culture we obsess about what went wrong and whose fault it was.

Perhaps it would be better to look at only what went well or was a success and do more of that, and even better next time.

It’s a challenge to change our thinking to that as a good deal of people won’t know what to do when they have no one to blame, shame and judge.