The wilderness

What we do to fit in is go against our true self, instinct and essence. It is a condition of the mind that drives us to not want to be seen as different, exposed or at risk from ridicule or being ostracised. It is all driven by our ego and its fragility.

True vulnerability, as Brene Brown would say, is being able to brave the wilderness and be wholehearted. That takes a huge amount of consciousness and acceptance of what is to be able to truly be and to truly be our soul and pure essence. We have to be prepared to walk the other way to the crowd.

On the surface, it is easier to fit in. However, only in the short-term, as fitting in and going against our true self creates inner suffering and pain.

Once we become conscious and true to ourselves, the pain fades, and we become braver and no longer in fear of the wilderness that being ourselves requires.

Truth within

Bravery is being surrounded by people you feel obligated by your conditioning to fit in with and you choose to be authentically 100% you both inside and outwardly. You accept them without judgement and be freely ‘you’ without the need to defend or justify.

If you are in doubt, try it whenever you are with others…see after an initial unease just how liberating it is to be truly you, but in a conscious way without prejudice of yourself or them.

Truth within and truth to the exterior.