Harmony isn’t about getting others to do what you want so there can be peace between you.
It is about accepting that we are all different and letting go rather than forcing change. This brings about peace and harmony between each other.
Acceptance equals harmony.
People are always searching for ways to fix or heal relationships or friendships, for example, a way to engineer an outcome to get things to be a certain way that there ego or mind wants.
There lies the problem, if it does not evolve through letting things be and letting go, then it is not meant to be and is not natural. Things that are engineered are not genuine, they are negative and of no soulful substance.
Relationships, friendships, work, life situations and so on, if they are forced, if there is pressure, manipulation, coercion they will never last. When we are 100% genuinely ourselves, conscious, and at peace, then true connection with other souls comes. There is a positive flow of energy, the universe works its magic, things unfold.
We look to engineer, yet we should leave things to be and see what comes.