The problem with criticising others is that they never like it or receive it positively. The more violently, either verbally or physically, we tell others our perception that they are wrong, the more they oppositely resist. The yin and yang.
Change comes from being an example that might inspire others to follow our lead.
We create everything individually that occurs in our life and the collective of humans creates the world and all that we encounter and occurs.
There are no victims, only in the story of ‘poor little me’, which is created by the mind’s ego. A self-defence mechanism of the fragile ego to protect itself from being responsible for anything that didn’t go to plan.
We are obsessed with making the ‘right’ choice. This is driven by the mind and its ego always wanting to be right, so it can feel superior, but fearing to be wrong then makes it others fault and so the victimhood begins.
We choose everything that happens, there are no right or wrong choices but there are always outcomes and consequences of our choices. If we didn’t become obsessed by the mind and its desire to be right, we’d follow our true essence and soul and accept the consequences without fear.