What encourages learning?

We always look for what went wrong.

What if we choose to look at what we could do even better?

There are no good or bad things in life, it is all an opportunity to learn.

Learning works best when we see where we can do even better. If we take a positive approach to it, it encourages us to grow to a higher version of ourselves. We see ourselves as already worthy, already good enough, which we all are no matter what.

Growth is all personal and there is no right or wrong, it is up to us what we want to expand into and to enhance ourselves. Staying as we are is also a choice, it does not matter.

What matters is not to focus on the negative energy of what we are conditioned to believe is failure as the mind will use it as a continual stick to beat ourselves with in the future. This does not encourage learning.

What encourages learning is acceptance of who we are and feeling worthy no matter what. It then becomes a platform where we can positively choose to enhance ourselves to a higher version, one that we set and not others.

We are all one moment away

We are all just a short step from our life being turned upside down, there are no guarantees, no certainties…everything can change in an instance. It can come from just a simple choice that leads to a big change.

Yet we can be cruelly judgemental of others who’s perceived fortunes have changed and are seen as no longer worthy humans because their struggles in life have lead to them becoming, say homeless or drug users or whatever other activity society might sneer at.

We are all worthy, no matter what, from the day we are born to the day we die. Our choices are not the measure to define us by. We all make them and we all make ‘good’ ones and ‘bad’ ones. It’s all very subjective anyway, who is to say what is right?. Yet as a society we are conditioned to judge others for their ‘bad’ choices, yet we’d excuse ourselves.

Judgement serves no purpose and is actually more a reflection of ourselves than the person we judge.

We are all one moment away from a bad choice…so best to accept others as they are and to leave others to be. Our choices are the only thing we control and again, it doesn’t make us a bad person permanently, if we make a wrong choice. We can start again in an instance and change, but it becomes harder once we have been labelled.