We always look for what went wrong.
What if we choose to look at what we could do even better?
There are no good or bad things in life, it is all an opportunity to learn.
Learning works best when we see where we can do even better. If we take a positive approach to it, it encourages us to grow to a higher version of ourselves. We see ourselves as already worthy, already good enough, which we all are no matter what.
Growth is all personal and there is no right or wrong, it is up to us what we want to expand into and to enhance ourselves. Staying as we are is also a choice, it does not matter.
What matters is not to focus on the negative energy of what we are conditioned to believe is failure as the mind will use it as a continual stick to beat ourselves with in the future. This does not encourage learning.
What encourages learning is acceptance of who we are and feeling worthy no matter what. It then becomes a platform where we can positively choose to enhance ourselves to a higher version, one that we set and not others.