What encourages learning?

We always look for what went wrong.

What if we choose to look at what we could do even better?

There are no good or bad things in life, it is all an opportunity to learn.

Learning works best when we see where we can do even better. If we take a positive approach to it, it encourages us to grow to a higher version of ourselves. We see ourselves as already worthy, already good enough, which we all are no matter what.

Growth is all personal and there is no right or wrong, it is up to us what we want to expand into and to enhance ourselves. Staying as we are is also a choice, it does not matter.

What matters is not to focus on the negative energy of what we are conditioned to believe is failure as the mind will use it as a continual stick to beat ourselves with in the future. This does not encourage learning.

What encourages learning is acceptance of who we are and feeling worthy no matter what. It then becomes a platform where we can positively choose to enhance ourselves to a higher version, one that we set and not others.

The pressure to do better

We are all capable at our own unique thing.

We are all doing well or at least at the level that we are at now and choose to be at.

Yes, we could all do even better, and who is to say that doing better matters?

It’s just a question of whether we want to or not.

If you are happy at your current level of doing something, then stay there and be happy.

If you want to be even better, we have to show up and do the work to get to the level we want.

However, there never is a right or wrong level to be at and we could choose to simply be happy where we are and ignore other people’s view of where we should be.

After all, it is all very subjective and often the levels we continually chase are set by others to ensure we comply and keep working to their ‘levels’ or ‘grades’.

There is so much more to life than constantly being dissatisfied with the level we are currently at.