Resilience is about flexibility

Building a habit is hard if the rules are so strict and so rigid that there is no room for a slip.

We make the rules for our own life inside our head. We are the ones who make ourselves feel guilty or useless for not doing something. We are the ones who decide.

If we are following a particular diet, or workout, or productivity routine, then we are the ones who set the rules and if we break them, we are the ones who choose to punish ourselves or not.

The thing is, whatever you do in life, there are no rules if you decide, other than the ones we impose upon ourselves. So if we have been doing something every single day for months and then we forget one day, it simply doesn’t matter unless we make it so.

The reality is, it is easier to build and maintain a habit for life if we allow ourselves the odd slip without the need to punish or feel bad. If there is only rigidity in anything, then it breaks, it becomes negative and resistance builds.

Resilience is about flexibility, being able to bend gives us the ability to spring back from a slip or setback. It is positive as we feel we can bend, there is no pressure.

Vibes

When we chase what we think that we need in life it only brings pain, stress and suffering.

If we are at peace and do not chase, when we are at peace and patient, then what we need finds us.

We transmit frequencies all the time and when we chase things, force things, manipulate things and try to engineer things, then it sends out a negative vibe, it repels rather than attracts.

When we are at peace, calm and we are just being, then the things that want us, is looking for us, is attracted to us…they will find us as we will be attracting them with our positive vibes.

Just let life unfold.