Our own painkillers

When we accept our unhappiness, when we accept our anger, frustration, fear, worry anxiety and all these negative emotions and energies we allow them to be. We take the energy from them, we recognise that they are there and stop the fight.

It is the internal fight and denial of these things that lead to the suffering, they create negative vibrational frequencies and energies within us, that affect our mental and physical health. It is felt in every cell of our body and it remains there if we keep fighting it. In addition, we transmit them to others. We send out our negative energies and they affect others too and then how they react with us. We get trapped in on our negative energy, it’s just reflected back at us and so it continues.

It is always the resistance to what is, the denial of what has already occurred, that cause the friction, the tension, the negativity, the pain within. When we let go and welcome and accept all feelings and emotions, whatever they are, then there will be peace within. When we accept and welcome our unhappiness, it takes away its negative energy, we are no longer feeding the pain through our fight against not wanting to be unhappy.

We feed our own internal pain, when we let go, accept, we create your own ‘painkillers’, by our surrender to what is and then we change the negative energy to positive energy. It comes through our presence and consciousness.

Free from the burden of events

Whatever happens, it has happened, so the less energy we expend on whatever has already occurred, the better for us. Situations arise in life and as they do, it has already arisen, it has happened, we can not change it. It instantly becomes the past as each moment unfolds.

When we do not like something that has occurred, we almost want to deny it has happened, or look to blame someone or ourselves. We give all our energy to this and often become angry or frustrated and think about why it happened. ‘Why me’.

Then once we’ve suffered from the event and the denial, the mind moves onto all the terrible things that will likely now occur as a consequence. The mind has now switched from the denial of the past to the psychological fear created by the fantasy that is the future. So we switch from annoyance to fear.

Suffering from events is based on the mind’s denial of what is and then the projection of what might happen. Neither of these activities of the mind is anything other than just thought, it is not real.

This moment is real and if we always accept what is as it is, then act now, if we choose and then do not waste any further energy, then we are free from suffering, at peace. We might not like what is happened, but we accept it has, when we surrender to what is, then we are free from burden and are able to move on.