Build what you want to see in the world

The only way to make lasting change is if we are the example to follow, not the anger to shame others.

Telling others they are wrong never goes well, it’s an ego thing!

Shaming others is another failed way to get them to change.

Brutality doesn’t lead to change, it leads to more brutality.

There has been anti this and anti that forever…the real change makers build something different and live by example. They share their love for something for others to be inspired by.

Everything always starts with our inner state, when we are at peace and disconnected from our story and ego, we project the light from our soul for others to see and choose, if they want, to follow our lead, our example, they are energised by our positive vibrations and light. They can be inspired by our passion and love for our ideas.

Start to build the thing you want to see in the world, don’t waver or worry about others…equally, don’t judge or criticise others, and maybe what you build others will want too.

Don’t tell me

It’s easy to tell others and give them advice, our ego likes the feeling of importance, especially when we feel we know better or do something better than the other person. It gives us a feeling of superiority and that’s what the ego loves.

It is far harder to be the example and take our own advice, we then have a raft of internal excuses as why it wouldn’t work for us or there are other factors to take into account, so is is ‘just not that simple’.

The thing is, it is always better to be an example for others to follow, if they choose, than it is to tell others what they ‘should’ do. At the end of the day, while some experiences are similar, we are all on our own unique journey, we are all different, and what might work for us, isn’t necessarily what might work for another.

If someone ask directly for our advice, then we can give them our view, however, most people want support, empathy, understanding and someone to listen to them, not to be told.