It is not up to me to change others.
It is not up to me to change their view.
It is not up to me to judge their behaviour.
It is not up to me to shame them.
It is not up to me to point the finger of blame at others.
It is up to me to be me and let others be.
In the blame, judgement and critical culture we obsess about what went wrong and whose fault it was.
Perhaps it would be better to look at only what went well or was a success and do more of that, and even better next time.
It’s a challenge to change our thinking to that as a good deal of people won’t know what to do when they have no one to blame, shame and judge.