Tag: let go

Free from stories

Posted on by philipdodson

Stop, pause, and ask, what story am I telling myself?

Whatever the story is, you are choosing what to tell yourself.

So we can change that story at any point.

The other thing even more important than that is, it is only your mind that is creating this story or stories very often. It isn’t the real you it is just your mind and its ego.

If you want to live out the fantasies of your mind then at least choose a good one. Better still live in the real life of this moment free from any attachment to your mind and its stories.

Just be and inspire

Posted on by philipdodson

Our egos trick us into believing that others need changing or fixing, they need to fit in with our story, world view and how we see the way to behave is.

The thing is they don’t need changing or fixing, no one does and whatever we think, is just what we think. That’s all.

When we let go of that we then focus on ourselves and what we are doing. That’s all we control. Often though, by focusing on ourselves, we grow and start to inspire others without the need to tell them or fix them or help them. We live our values and beliefs instead of telling others what theirs should be.

Just be and inspire, don’t tell, fix or pressure and burden others.