We do not need to set out to help others…people are not broken and do not need fixing.

Yet we set out with what we believe is a good intention to change or fix others as they appear broken through the lens of our mind’s view of them. They haven’t asked to be fixed or changed and what was good for our journey isn’t their journey. We are all on our own path.

Of course, we can be a light and example for others to help them if they need it or to inspire them.

After all, a lighthouse does not sail the seas looking for ships to help, it shines its light for them when they need it.

Cure and responsibility

We want the cure not the responsibility for fixing something ourselves. The easy fix, the shortcut, making it someone else’s fault and/or responsibility.

Everything in life is a choice right now this moment and all our choices have consequences including not taking responsibility for ourselves.