Stop looking

Signs are everywhere, you just have to see them.

To see them you need to stop looking for what you do not have and be grateful for what you already have. A position of gratitude and no resistance.

This changes us from a mind-obsessed position of resistance and disappointment searching constantly for more to a soul-filled position of peace and calm, awareness and acceptance. No more fighting, no more looking for something to fulfil us.

All that we need we have and all that we need to grow is there if we stop looking and just see.

Advice, have it

The challenge with advice is the adviser assumes that others want what they want from life, see life through their lens and actually wanted their advice. The person often just wants another to understand them, to truly hear them and to be a light for them.

Best always to let others be, listen as in without evaluation and only offer an example of your life as perhaps something that might be inspirational. Telling others your view is rarely of any help.

We are responsible for ourselves…that’s all.