Our egos trick us into believing that others need changing or fixing, they need to fit in with our story, world view and how we see the way to behave is.
The thing is they don’t need changing or fixing, no one does and whatever we think, is just what we think. That’s all.
When we let go of that we then focus on ourselves and what we are doing. That’s all we control. Often though, by focusing on ourselves, we grow and start to inspire others without the need to tell them or fix them or help them. We live our values and beliefs instead of telling others what theirs should be.
Just be and inspire, don’t tell, fix or pressure and burden others.