People are always searching for ways to fix or heal relationships or friendships, for example, a way to engineer an outcome to get things to be a certain way that there ego or mind wants.
There lies the problem, if it does not evolve through letting things be and letting go, then it is not meant to be and is not natural. Things that are engineered are not genuine, they are negative and of no soulful substance.
Relationships, friendships, work, life situations and so on, if they are forced, if there is pressure, manipulation, coercion they will never last. When we are 100% genuinely ourselves, conscious, and at peace, then true connection with other souls comes. There is a positive flow of energy, the universe works its magic, things unfold.
We look to engineer, yet we should leave things to be and see what comes.
Most of us are engaged as knowledge workers, where we do mainly repetitive and not very fulfiling daily tasks. It leaves a discontent, a feeling that we are not really making a difference.
We can’t all be entrepreneurs or freelancers, we can’t all quit our jobs immediately and roam the world. Of course, over a period of time, anything is achievable.
However, we can choose on a daily basis to do some art, to write a journal, to craft something, to make something, baking a cake, cooking, singing, playing the guitar…to do a small thing that gives a sense of contributing, of doing something that is purposeful. Stepping away from the dripping tap of distraction that is the digital unreal world of unconsciousness.
We live in a world that is instant everything, yet we are so unsatisfied. Satisfaction comes from being present and focusing on one thing, often a simple thing, that brings us real joy and taking our time to enjoy it, not rushing to elsewhere.