Move on

When something becomes an effort and there is no joy, when we deep down know that something isn’t what we want, then it is time to let go and move on from that thing or person or whatever situation.

Of course, our mind will get us to believe that it is us or we have done something wrong, or we must try harder and so on. We cling on to a job, or friendship or anything, hoping to ‘fix’ it or to keep it as it was. But all things are temporary.

Things or people are meant to be or not. They can come and go from our lives or be there forever. A thing or a person may serve a purpose for a period, sometimes for a very short time and sometimes for much longer and then we have grown or evolved, or they have, and it is time to let go and move on. There is no reason for it, it just is and if we accept it, then we let go of pain and suffering within. We no longer blame ourselves.

We do not need to make an evaluation of the thing or the person, no need to search for a reason, there is no need for judgement, it is just a feeling from within that tells us that it is no longer suiting our journey and it is time to just move on and let go. However, the mind and its ego look to hold on or to convince or to make us do more or there is guilt.

Just be at peace with all that is, just accept that it is no longer for us and choose a new direction, a new start and always focus on our inner wisdom and intuition…trust it and just be.


The stronger us humans have become attached to our mind, thoughts, ego and unconscious state the further we have gone from nature, sanity, light and wisdom. We can not see reality, we can not see what is in plain sight, we can not understand the most simple things, we are too busy looking into the past or the future through the lenses of our story that we do not see now, this very moment, the only moment.

So many intuitive things have now been hidden by the dust of our mind and its negative, sabotaging and controlling thought patterns…yes, the same ones that we have every single day and serve no purpose. I say hidden, as the intuition and wisdom are always there, they are part of our soul and essence that can never go, it has just become lost temporarily due to our mind and its control. The light has been covered in dust but it is still there, a bit like on a cloudy day, the sun has not suddenly disappeared, we just can’t see it clearly.

We are not our minds, our thoughts, the story of ‘little me’ is a fantasy and fabrication of our egos. There is just one you or me, it is our essence, being, soul…the ball of energy that makes up everything in the universe.

For example, like many, in state of psychological fear, are hoping for a vaccine to cure something, they override and ignore the fact that they have the most sophisticated, advanced and amazing internal immune system, it is the very reason us as species are still on this rock, we are designed to overcome diseases.

But the power of the mind and its fear, not real present moment fear of a savage bear about to attack us, which we can, of course, deal with that. I’m talking about the fear of something in the future, so imaginary, not real, a fantasy, an illusion we can not deal with as it isn’t real. So it causes us suffering and pain and then the mind looks for an answer or salvation, especially we look to others to bring us the solution. Of course, it doesn’t come, because even if there was a vaccine for ‘x’, then ‘y’ would come and cause us more fear again. it never ends when we are engaged with the mindstream.

The mind and our pain bodies thrive on fear, drama and the next thing to think and worry about, one thing creates the next in a vortex of perpetual suffering. When we detach ourselves from that and leave thought to be, like clouds floating past in the sky, then we can become aware and conscious again, no longer being dragged along by thought. We can then clear the clouds from the sun, we can then let the light shine, we can stop the insanity of thought and fear. We can allow our wisdom to come and flow, this will allow us to see simple things, the obvious, to see things as they are in this moment. Everything is as it is, always. The denial of that comes from the insanity of our mind and its ego, wanting something different to reality.

We can only see anything as it is when we allow ourselves to just be. Inner peace comes in this state and nothing bothers us, we are able to solve anything now this moment and accept that sometimes there is no answer, there doesn’t have to be, it’s OK. Everything is always OK now. Good and bad are only made so by the mind.

The mind can solve puzzles, an IQ test, or remember information, however, thoughts and the mind only cloud over real intelligence, love and light from our soul.