Making change positive

Other people are always right. They right about how they feel, the opinions they have, their choices and so on. It is what they choose to do.

If you want to communicate with them, you’ll need to get that concept.

We all like our own opinions, views and choices.

No one responds well to be told they are wrong, especially in an aggressive way.

Yet so many people who set out with zeal to change the world do so in a confrontational manner.

If change-makers accepted that it’s not their place to change others and focused on positively inspiring by example, then people may choose to follow their example.

If they don’t that’s their choice and they aren’t wrong, they are just having a different view.

We alone choose

Everything choice has a consequence and we alone are responsible for all our choices in life.

The thing is we have been conditioned to blame others for the outcomes of our choices and then create a victim story.

If we accept our choices have consequences, and that we alone are accountable, then life becomes better. Victimhood only causes us, and others, suffering.