Bad news

Our default reaction to any bad news is always to worst case scenario that will result and to what we could have done, or should have done, to avoid the bad news happening.

The future and the past is where the suffering is. The future is the psychological fear of our minds’s projections into the future, a thing that does not exist except for in our heads. Of course, the ego thrives on drama and is totally insecure, so it comes up with the worst-case scenarios. We can go from mild bad news to meltdown in a short space of time.

The past, of course, no longer exists, and it is an act of complete futility to even think that it can be undone. But it is a chance to start the victim role, poor me, or it was so and so, it’s their fault.

If we choose to accept that what is, is it, unchangeable, if we accept that it has happened and that what comes from it is unknown, then we can concentrate on now. The only time that we can act or think or do or ignore or whatever we choose to do or not do.

If our default reaction was ‘I accept what is’ then we are free of the suffering, we are not resisting or denying reality and from a place of inner calm we can deal with any challenge that occurs.

Most of our life nothing has actually happened, it is our fears of what might happen that create all the suffering.

Enjoy now, the problem-free moment that is always our real life. It does not mean that we do not take action, but what we do not do is suffer.

It didn’t happen, right?

That thing you worried about yesterday, or the day before or for weeks, it didn’t happen, right? Maybe you even worried about it for years.

The thing you’re currently worrying about, it won’t happen either.

The psychological fear created by the mind’s projection into the future creates anxiety, worry, and stress on a continual daily basis. We can almost become in a constant state of anxiety all caused by our thoughts of the future. The future is simply a mind construct, it doesn’t and never will exist.

If we stay more in the moment, we are less in the future and then there is a whole lot less to worry about.

Enjoy now…because it will never happen as we imagine it.