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What is love?

Posted on by philipdodson

Love is something that comes from the soul, it isn’t an emotion. Emotion, Greek for turbulence, are the chemical manifestation in the body of what is happening our egoic mind.

As a true human soul our pure essence is love, we are love. Therefore love is not conditional it is unconditional as it is our default operating system as a spiritual being.

Neediness and infatuation are what the mind tricks us into to believing love is. We meet someone, there is a physical infatuation, their story matches ours and two minds fall in ‘love’. This then develops into a longer relationship of dependency, neediness and place a burden on the other to provide happiness and fulfilment. Of course, this works all the time the neediness is served.

Then the physical infatuation wanes, the other expectations aren’t met and the two minds that feel in love breakdown and issues happen. Often leading to one the minds seeking fulfilment through another, only to find that inevitably the same challenge occurs sometime later. The lack of happiness then leads to deny ‘love’ to the other and often involves punishment.

Love can never be taken away. Love is totally without conditions and when we allow our light from within to shine and we disassociate with the egoic story and let go of the neediness the love will always previal.

It’s important to realise that neediness and dependency, what we mistake as love, is always destined to bring suffering for ourselves and the others within our relationships.

We are love not the story in our mind. We are always worthy of love from ourselves as we are all born worthy as a human soul and we end our physical journey as that same soul. Love is not defined by anything.

The road to a better world

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The human race has nearly completely paralysed itself with psychological fear. The most powerful fear of all.

It’s because psychological fear is not real, it is a simple mental construct in our mind or in the collective mind made by a projection into the unreal realm that is the future and because it is not real we cannot deal with it. All we can do is suffer within. It is based on a fear of the unknown. It has catastrophic effects on our mental and naturally our physical health. It is ego driven and all about the story or stories in our head and how this or that will affect me.

We are all connected to this matrix of fear and the resulting harm to humanity is painfully obvious. Even before recent times, it has been increasing and increasing, to an almost hysterical point. The last 12-18 months is a simple reflection of the state of fear that most people live out their daily lives. We are reaching a tipping point and this is normal, balance will come.

Once the mind creates this fear, it feeds off it and creates more and more. As always, we create our own reality, so if we believe that everything and everyone is out to get us, then they are. Multiple this by billions of human souls and then you get the kind of collective fear that the current world is in. It feeds itself to the point we have almost become frightened of our own shadow. It is all related to the core fear of death.

If we understood that we do not have life, that we are actually life itself, then we would accept that ‘death’ does not really occur, our essence and energy will continue forever. Accepting that it is only our current temporary physical carnation that dies, and not the real us, allows inner peace to come. Recognising we are not our thoughts, the story, the ego, they are just a construct of our mind allows us to step away from the fear.

Like all things dark, the good news is, there has to be balance, the Yin and Yang of the universe, and the balance is that it will and is becoming lighter, more people are switching off the matrix of fear, more people are realising that consciousness and simply being is the route to inner peace. We are moving on from the egoic mind and its destructiveness. We will evolve to see the human mind as an absolutely amazing tool for wonderful creation for us to use and not become it or believe it is the real you or I.

We need to show compassion for all human souls no matter what and we have to be understanding of other people’s fears not judgemental or hateful, as that is just another fear based mind state.

The road to a better world is there, we just need individually to choose to walk it and not wait for others, or judge others on their path.