It passes

Whatever comes, it always passes, all things, situations, events, people and so on are temporary.

Yet the mind convinces is that they are permanent. Either for the good or the bad.

If we accept what is and accept people as they are, then whatever occurs we can be at peace with it.

Alternatively, we can allow our mind to make us suffer with its attachments to all things and all people.

These attachments don’t bring joy they bring expectations, conditions and that leads to burden on others and suffering within.

Acceptance allows inner peace and letting go of attachments allows us to accept.

It passes and that’s ok. Just be.

Be first

What we feel others don’t give us can easily be changed. So if we feel unloved, unwanted, not paid attention to, left out, ignored or not respected…we blame others, our ego makes it their fault.

Instead of looking to others to give it to us or to blame, we can step away from our ego and be first and start giving it to the world. So we can give respect, love, attention, kindness, and understanding, in fact, much more. When we become a giver we become positive and send out positive energies.

Amazingly, very soon all the things we feel that we didn’t get come to us and more than we perhaps expected.

Don’t wait for others to change, be first.