Our ego tricks us into believing that things happen to us, like someone or something is out to get us.
It feeds the drama and helps the separation that the ego needs. It attaches itself to situations and then comes the suffering within.
Things just happen, accept it and let go of attachment, it is only personal if we choose to want to suffer.
We are conditioned to talk about our achievements, it’s how we measure our worth and how measure ourselves versus others.
The ego loves this as we can either be a ‘winner’ and feel superior or a ‘loser’ and be a victim.
Outside the insanity of our ego and its achievements or not is a conscious place where just being is all that matters. We are all worthy, there are no conditions that make more or less worthy.