Jelly moulds will produce the same jelly every time.
None of us came from a mould well not from the same one as anyone else.
We are unique when we are born and our life’s journey is totally unique.
Why do we then destroy ourselves with comparisons to others?
Often we try too hard to be the perfect manager, the perfect partner, the perfect parent, the perfect citizen…
We sort ourselves from others based on judgements or comparisons. We strive to be better and not make any mistakes. We cut ourselves no slack.
We all need to relax a little, take life a little less seriously, laugh more, smile more, and most of all, be kind to ourselves. Realise that it is about the momentum of change or the overall behaviour, not a rigid unrelenting check on ourselves and how we measure up to the often unrealistic expectations we set on ourselves.
Let’s give us a break.