It’s our choice

We are not here to please others, to fix others, to tell others what to do, we are here for our own experiences. What others are is what they are, accept them and let them be. We can only control ourselves not others.

We do not need permission, we do not need other peoples acceptance or approval.

Our path and journey is uniquely ours to choose what the next step is.

Of course, all choices have consequences and we are accountable for the outcome of the ones we make.

It’s our choice, our journey…just live the moment, follow your feelings and enjoy it no matter what anyone thinks.

Doing the opposite to what brings us joy

We always feel most at ease and peace inside when we are truly ourselves, when we are not wearing any hats, when we are not acting out any roles, when we are not trying to fit in. We feel most at ease when we set our boundaries, when we do not justify ourselves, when we do not seek approval or permission.

Amazingly we spend most of our lives doing the opposite of what brings us peace and joy. We are always trying to fit in, trying to please others, acting out roles, seeking approval and permission and fearing being our true self in case we offend someone.

Madness given we only get one shot at this human experience on this rock.

Just be you and enjoy the journey and the ones who are the true beings will get you as you are and those who don’t, well they have a different journey to yours.