Be first

What we feel others don’t give us can easily be changed. So if we feel unloved, unwanted, not paid attention to, left out, ignored or not respected…we blame others, our ego makes it their fault.

Instead of looking to others to give it to us or to blame, we can step away from our ego and be first and start giving it to the world. So we can give respect, love, attention, kindness, and understanding, in fact, much more. When we become a giver we become positive and send out positive energies.

Amazingly, very soon all the things we feel that we didn’t get come to us and more than we perhaps expected.

Don’t wait for others to change, be first.

Just be and inspire

Our egos trick us into believing that others need changing or fixing, they need to fit in with our story, world view and how we see the way to behave is.

The thing is they don’t need changing or fixing, no one does and whatever we think, is just what we think. That’s all.

When we let go of that we then focus on ourselves and what we are doing. That’s all we control. Often though, by focusing on ourselves, we grow and start to inspire others without the need to tell them or fix them or help them. We live our values and beliefs instead of telling others what theirs should be.

Just be and inspire, don’t tell, fix or pressure and burden others.