People come and go

People come into our lives and serve a purpose and are part of our journey of growth and evolution. Some will be there for a short time, maybe a day or even a chance conversation with a stranger, some longer and some for life.

It doesn’t matter how long a person is there. It’s OK to let go and move on from that person when we feel that the time is right to move on and that feeling comes from the soul, not from the mind and its ego. There is no need to explain either why we are moving on, there doesn’t have to be a reason, we don’t need to do anything or say ‘goodbye’ or make a big fuss. We can just let it be and if it is meant to continue it will happen and if not it won’t. It is as simple as that and it only gets complicated when our mind and its fragile ego get involved and where we have created a needy attachment, that is when the pain and suffering within comes and when we feel we have to act.

When we have to force something then there is nothing good that will come from it for either person or if we have to make a big deal about moving on and a big fuss, then it is really all about our ego and being a victim/punisher of another and again nothing good will come from it.

If we let things be, allowing time with another to be free from dependency and attachment, and allow ourselves to trust our true essence and feelings about when it is time to go, then there is freedom and joy for each person. It is without drama and pain-free too.

All things, including friendships and relationships, are always as they are and they are meant to be or not. It is not our job to interfere, it is our place to just be and enjoy what is. Always to be present in this moment and away from the sabotage of the mind.

We do not need to be accountable to or get the permission from others to do what our soul and instinct is telling us to do.

Move on

When something becomes an effort and there is no joy, when we deep down know that something isn’t what we want, then it is time to let go and move on from that thing or person or whatever situation.

Of course, our mind will get us to believe that it is us or we have done something wrong, or we must try harder and so on. We cling on to a job, or friendship or anything, hoping to ‘fix’ it or to keep it as it was. But all things are temporary.

Things or people are meant to be or not. They can come and go from our lives or be there forever. A thing or a person may serve a purpose for a period, sometimes for a very short time and sometimes for much longer and then we have grown or evolved, or they have, and it is time to let go and move on. There is no reason for it, it just is and if we accept it, then we let go of pain and suffering within. We no longer blame ourselves.

We do not need to make an evaluation of the thing or the person, no need to search for a reason, there is no need for judgement, it is just a feeling from within that tells us that it is no longer suiting our journey and it is time to just move on and let go. However, the mind and its ego look to hold on or to convince or to make us do more or there is guilt.

Just be at peace with all that is, just accept that it is no longer for us and choose a new direction, a new start and always focus on our inner wisdom and intuition…trust it and just be.