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We can’t give to others what we don’t give to ourselves

Posted on by philipdodson

We can’t give to others what we don’t give to ourselves.

If we don’t love ourselves we can’t love others. If we are not kind to ourselves we can’t give it to others. If we have no compassion for ourselves then we can’t be compassionate with others. If we do not show ourselves empathy and understanding then we will not see and understand others.

Understanding is a powerful thing that we all seek and yet we do not start with ourselves. We do not take the time to own or be accountable for our journeys. When we own them we can learn and write a different story. We can then seek to understand others too. All to often we fill in the gaps with ourselves and make up stories and we do e we it’s others too.

Equally, what we give to ourselves, we give to others. If we are angry, fearful, unkind, harsh, judging, shaming, and so on, of ourselves then we will treat others the same. If we are kind, compassionate, loving and understanding with ourselves we will be with others.

Inner peace comes from treating ourselves kindly and outer peace follows.

It all starts with us. The world is what we create from our inner state.

I am so transformed

Posted on by philipdodson

If we feel we need to tell others that we are enlightened, spiritual, transformed and floating on our cloud, or if we judge others not to be that, then it is likely we are not too.

We have simply shifted from one ego-created self-image of ourselves to another. We are simply playing out another role created by our minds.

If we are conscious, at peace within and simply being, then there is nothing to announce to the world and, of course, we would not be within our mind and its judgements to make any assumptions about others anyway. Being our true self does not require us to make a statement to others or do anything other than just be.

Simply be…we do not need to be ‘transformed’.