The legacy we leave will depend on what we do now

After my morning swim in the sea at Seaford, which was so nourishing and envigorating, as always, we went to the beautiful little village Rottingdean by the sea.

After a lovely tea and food at Shane’s Kitchen, we wandered around Kipling’s gardens and then took a stroll around the graveyard of the beautiful Norman church.

I felt quite emotional reading the lovely and wonderful tributes on the remembrance plaques and the gravestones. It was a gentle reminder that all things are temporary including our own journey.

We have a limited and unknown number of moments here in our current carnation and having read many of the loving tributes, I thought to myself, firstly, never waste a moment to show love to others that are still here. We often wait for funerals to say the things that we wanted to say about that person who has died but didn’t while they were alive or we do not say them often enough. We didn’t show the person when they were able to hear our loving words or receive our love through our actions, gestures and care towards them.

Secondly, it struck me that now is the only moment that we are actually alive and therefore it is important to make the most of this moment, not just loving ourselves or another soul, but to make experiences, and do the things that we feel and that the mind fears most, say the things we feel, create experiences and share our gift with all other souls.

After all, we will all end our journeys and the legacy that we leave will depend on what we do now.

Journeys and destinations

Following on from yesterday, yet more thinking out loud…what is the next step?

Do I share stories? Do I blog weekly? Do I start mapping out processes?

Do I stop thinking about it and allow the creativity to flow from the soul?

The thing is we all fear changing something, we fear taking away the armour and becoming vulnerable. We fear stepping out of the shadows. We are the director, producer and owner of our own movie, yet instead of being the lead role we end up sitting in the background being an extra. We are extras in our own film!!!

The best stuff always comes when we let go, when stop listening to the voices inside and outside our head. When we truly show up as ourselves and just be.

Take the plunge and follow the ripples and the current. See where it takes you. After all, it doesn’t actually matter.

I’m still on the fence…I need to jump off and pick a path, one step at a time the journey will unfold. I can change the path at any point but better to choose a path and take a step than to never walk the paths of life.

If I focus on the doing and not the destination then the joy of writing will return.

Journeys and not destinations is what life is.