Tag: solutions

Let’s start from scratch

Posted on by philipdodson

We keep trying as a human race to fix what is already broken beyond repair. The system that we largely modelled on the Romans has been transplanted by Europeans all over the world. It is what has turned humans into consumers instead of being creators. All we do is consume without putting anything back.

It is not about fixing it, the system was rotten from the Romans and now is so rotten that few could consciously defend it. The inequality and gap between the tiny few and the rest is now so skewed as to be insane. The unconscious dark world is getting darker and as always, there is the opposite a huge awakening, the light is growing as it gets darker.

However, the agenda is focused on trying to fix a rotten and broken system. One crazy power group are replaced by another. The insanity is almost normalised.

Better to build something new that is not modelled on the past and is focused on now, on consciousness and being nature, not separate from it, as the human race has foolishly believed.

We have to start acting out of integrity, we have to start to be the example ourselves and we have to take the first steps now to build something different, a new operating system as the existing one is so riddled with bugs that there is no point in trying to debug it.

Let’s start from scratch and build something where we become path finders again instead of instruction followers, where we become creators and stop being consumers.

Advice?

Posted on by philipdodson

If we come to someone and ask advice, and then do not take it because we don’t like the answer, it’s often because we wanted approval and not advice.

We can, of course, gain from advice, books, podcasts, coaching, courses if we are stuck, but most often we are looking for approval or validation rather than advice or a way of putting off taking the action we already know will solve the problem.

However, if we only consume them and never actually try them or act upon them faithfully then we won’t advance, we will stay stuck in our perceived problem.

Every challenge in life has a solution and we need to be responsible for being a path finder and not being a person who only wants instructions that we don’t follow because we either don’t really have a challenge, other than what the mind has invented, or we actually are too fearful to find a solution to it.

We have the answer, but we seek approval from others for our proposed solution under the smokescreen of advice.

So many people seek advice and then never act on it.

Unsolicited advice is never well received or useful, it is actually the advisors ego and their own stories that causes them to vent under the disguise of advising.

We never like being told when all we wanted was to be listened too. We didn’t ask for the opinion but the other person’s ego and autobiographical perspective caused them to offer ‘advice’ which really translates to ‘look at me I know’ behaviour. It’s not genuine heartfelt care, it’s actually about them and not you.

If we seek advice and don’t use it that’s ok too, we do not have to agree with the adviser. But when we seek advice and don’t like the answer, that’s not the fault of the adviser.

We all need help at times and we all need advice and as long as that is what you are seeking and not looking for approval, then advice is a good option when we are stuck on our path-finding mission.

Advice works when we are truthful with ourselves as that is what we really want.