Fear creates extremes and love creates connection.
In a world so driven by fear, it is no surprise that there is little connection, we are divided by violent opposite opinions. The divisions are cultivated by the manipulators of the collective mind.
If we choose love, the divisions dissolve, an opinion is just that and we can be free to connect with everyone without conditions.
We only see judgement, criticism, race, social status, discrimination and any kind of division when there is fear.
True love from our inner soul is always unconditional, as when there is a condition to loving, then it is not love. As an individual human being, we are identical to all other human beings. We are a soul, a ball of energy that is all part of the one life that is the entire universe. All human souls are connected only the fear of our unconscious minds divides us.
Often in life, especially with people who matter to me, I have wanted, with good intention, to help them and to fix them. If I saw them doing something that I had learnt painfully was a mistake then I so wanted to save them from that pain.
What I have now learnt is people are not broken and they didn’t need fixing, it was me who needed to adjust my perspective, as they weren’t me, I was stuck in autobiographical mode, what mattered to me.
Also, I am now learning to focus on me, not that I am broken and need fixing either, but if I work on being a role model, being inspirational, being a leader, being true to myself, then perhaps if someone does want to change something and then they may see something that I do or have done that might help inspire them.
The whole thing is ratcheted up to a much higher level of desire to fix and help when it is your own children, but here it is even more essential that I am a good role model rather than a fixer of things that are not broken.
Of course, like everything, it is a work in progress for me and learning to let things be is hard, but so worth it.