Ditching fitting in

Fitting in is something we feel we need to do, so much so, that even when there is no one there, we still behave in a way that would be seen to be normal.

We are afraid of being different and that fear prevents us from being our true selves. We suffer within from that fear of not fitting in, of being judged for being different and at the same time we suffer from not being who we truly are.

Perhaps it’s better to lose all the suffering…just be ourselves no matter what. Ditch fitting in and just be.

Kind words

There isn’t another you, there never has been and never will be.

Compare yourself to no one.

Do not measure yourself against anything, there is not a measure you will come up with that matters. Accepting who we are and being able to just be is all that matters.

Do not say bad things about yourself to yourself. Speak only kindly to yourself and to others.

Kind words have no comparison.