Be first

What we feel others don’t give us can easily be changed. So if we feel unloved, unwanted, not paid attention to, left out, ignored or not respected…we blame others, our ego makes it their fault.

Instead of looking to others to give it to us or to blame, we can step away from our ego and be first and start giving it to the world. So we can give respect, love, attention, kindness, and understanding, in fact, much more. When we become a giver we become positive and send out positive energies.

Amazingly, very soon all the things we feel that we didn’t get come to us and more than we perhaps expected.

Don’t wait for others to change, be first.

It’s a choice we can make at any point

What if we choose to accept others as who they are?

What if we choose to seek to find the good in them, not the bad?

What if we choose to understand and hear them first?

What if we choose not to evaluate them based on a judgement?

Perhaps the world would be different, it’s a choice we can make at any point.