The more we try the less the things we want come.
If we allow things to unfold, if we are free from pressure, if we concentrate on the moment of actually doing, if we allow the universe to work, then things come to us.
We send out positive vibes when we let things be and are at peace within and that attracts other positive vibes around us.
When we try too hard and when we force things then negativity comes from us because we are fighting and resisting and not allow things to flow, there is friction. We then emit negative vibrations and that attracts other negative vibrations around us.
Let things be and things will come.