Don’t finish your book too early

In your head.

That’s is where life is.

It’s what we say.

We decide the narrative. We tell the story.

Good or bad.

Kind or hateful.

Love or hate.

Whatever opposites you want.

Fear or bravery.

Hiding or being open.

There are a million shades of grey not just the black and white options.

Whatever narrative you create inside your head, remember it’s you who creates it and controls it.

The story is ours and we get to write every line of every chapter, yet we often allow others to be the editors of our story.

Write it yourself, tell it as you want it, and the good news is you can always re-write the story, add another chapter, change the plot, even re-write a scene, change the characters. It’s completely the author’s choice.

However at the end of our story, the only thing we’ll regret is we didn’t keep writing more chapters.

Don’t get to the end of your book to early in life and settle for the book being done because it’s easy.

You are….


Often parents, teachers, bosses and others, tell us what we are.

You are an extrovert, you are shy, you are not a people person, you are not good at x or y, you are….

Most often what they are telling us we are is a critical judgement not a positive affirmation. 

The voices of others mould and shape us, often to a place that we do not like, to being a person truly we are not. However, it takes a long time to realise this and the longer you accept the view of others, the longer it takes to overcome.

Listen to you view of you, it is one that matters.

Don’t be afraid to speak out and set the boundaries with others, be brave to voice who you really are to the world.

Tell yourself what you really are and be that person regardless of what others say.

It is our life and our choices, make the ones that serve you best.