It’s up to us

Once we realise that our happiness and joy in life is our responsibility and no one else’s, then we take out the burden on others and disappointment for ourselves.

All relationships are better without the expectations of others to fulfil our life for us and its resulting suffering and burden.

Make our own happiness and free ourselves and others.

Stop looking

Signs are everywhere, you just have to see them.

To see them you need to stop looking for what you do not have and be grateful for what you already have. A position of gratitude and no resistance.

This changes us from a mind-obsessed position of resistance and disappointment searching constantly for more to a soul-filled position of peace and calm, awareness and acceptance. No more fighting, no more looking for something to fulfil us.

All that we need we have and all that we need to grow is there if we stop looking and just see.