We so often in life add 2 and 2 and make whatever the mind wants it to be. No matter what others say or do, we always end up with the same theory in our head…because that’s what our story within wants.

Once we have a theory, and it always how it affects us and usually we see ourselves as being the victim, then the mind will filter anything it sees or hears with that theory. So everything fits the theory. We find what we are looking for regardless of the reality.

Then, unsurprisingly, our theory quiet often seems to come to pass!

We manifest our own reality by attaching ourselves to the mind and its thoughts.

If we just accept what is and allow others to be, we can just be too. Then whatever happens, happens, which it will anyway whatever we think. If we remove the judgemental lenses, then we see people and things without the need to evaluate or fit it to our ‘theory’. The theory is just a fantasy projection in our head into the fiction that is the unreal future…the future doesn’t exist except in our mind.

Drama always finds more drama, victims always become more victimised and bad things always find more bad things. We can choose to have none of it if we step away from the mind and its theories.


The challenge with any theory is, it is just that, a theory. Nothing more, nothing less…a thought.

It is all opinion and a mental construct of an individual’s mind, that is then adopted by the collective mind, if it resonates with their story.

The thing is people attach themselves completely to theories and then the ego leads them to defend them to the last, blindly ignoring or ridiculing any opposing theory. The craziness of the resistance to anything other than our view.

Theories, therefore, are neither good nor bad as they are just in the mind, they can not be a conspiracy or right, they are simply a different mental construct to perhaps ours.

Fear is the driving force behind the ridiculing of others, the fear of their views being wrong and therefore the fragile ego is wrong and exposed. Fear is the driving force of the mind.

Best to leave theories to the minds of others, let our essence shine and just be at peace with the wonder that is real life in this conscious moment, free from thought and its restriction on us.

After all, there are millions of theories and who knows or cares which one is right as it will not matter.