There are no winners in arguments. Two egos, or more sometimes, clash and it becomes like a fight, the mind sees it the same as a real physical threat and it will defend at all costs.
If your ego wins, sadly everyone loses, because every argument destroys a little bit in friendships and relationships.
If we stay away from our minds and ego, then we do not argue, as there is no point. It is so irrelevant to be right and in our conscious state, we can see the insanity of arguing.
Arguing is for the mind, not the soul.
Philip Dodson 