People come and go

People come into our lives and serve a purpose and are part of our journey of growth and evolution. Some will be there for a short time, maybe a day or even a chance conversation with a stranger, some longer and some for life.

It doesn’t matter how long a person is there. It’s OK to let go and move on from that person when we feel that the time is right to move on and that feeling comes from the soul, not from the mind and its ego. There is no need to explain either why we are moving on, there doesn’t have to be a reason, we don’t need to do anything or say ‘goodbye’ or make a big fuss. We can just let it be and if it is meant to continue it will happen and if not it won’t. It is as simple as that and it only gets complicated when our mind and its fragile ego get involved and where we have created a needy attachment, that is when the pain and suffering within comes and when we feel we have to act.

When we have to force something then there is nothing good that will come from it for either person or if we have to make a big deal about moving on and a big fuss, then it is really all about our ego and being a victim/punisher of another and again nothing good will come from it.

If we let things be, allowing time with another to be free from dependency and attachment, and allow ourselves to trust our true essence and feelings about when it is time to go, then there is freedom and joy for each person. It is without drama and pain-free too.

All things, including friendships and relationships, are always as they are and they are meant to be or not. It is not our job to interfere, it is our place to just be and enjoy what is. Always to be present in this moment and away from the sabotage of the mind.

We do not need to be accountable to or get the permission from others to do what our soul and instinct is telling us to do.


The stronger us humans have become attached to our mind, thoughts, ego and unconscious state the further we have gone from nature, sanity, light and wisdom. We can not see reality, we can not see what is in plain sight, we can not understand the most simple things, we are too busy looking into the past or the future through the lenses of our story that we do not see now, this very moment, the only moment.

So many intuitive things have now been hidden by the dust of our mind and its negative, sabotaging and controlling thought patterns…yes, the same ones that we have every single day and serve no purpose. I say hidden, as the intuition and wisdom are always there, they are part of our soul and essence that can never go, it has just become lost temporarily due to our mind and its control. The light has been covered in dust but it is still there, a bit like on a cloudy day, the sun has not suddenly disappeared, we just can’t see it clearly.

We are not our minds, our thoughts, the story of ‘little me’ is a fantasy and fabrication of our egos. There is just one you or me, it is our essence, being, soul…the ball of energy that makes up everything in the universe.

For example, like many, in state of psychological fear, are hoping for a vaccine to cure something, they override and ignore the fact that they have the most sophisticated, advanced and amazing internal immune system, it is the very reason us as species are still on this rock, we are designed to overcome diseases.

But the power of the mind and its fear, not real present moment fear of a savage bear about to attack us, which we can, of course, deal with that. I’m talking about the fear of something in the future, so imaginary, not real, a fantasy, an illusion we can not deal with as it isn’t real. So it causes us suffering and pain and then the mind looks for an answer or salvation, especially we look to others to bring us the solution. Of course, it doesn’t come, because even if there was a vaccine for ‘x’, then ‘y’ would come and cause us more fear again. it never ends when we are engaged with the mindstream.

The mind and our pain bodies thrive on fear, drama and the next thing to think and worry about, one thing creates the next in a vortex of perpetual suffering. When we detach ourselves from that and leave thought to be, like clouds floating past in the sky, then we can become aware and conscious again, no longer being dragged along by thought. We can then clear the clouds from the sun, we can then let the light shine, we can stop the insanity of thought and fear. We can allow our wisdom to come and flow, this will allow us to see simple things, the obvious, to see things as they are in this moment. Everything is as it is, always. The denial of that comes from the insanity of our mind and its ego, wanting something different to reality.

We can only see anything as it is when we allow ourselves to just be. Inner peace comes in this state and nothing bothers us, we are able to solve anything now this moment and accept that sometimes there is no answer, there doesn’t have to be, it’s OK. Everything is always OK now. Good and bad are only made so by the mind.

The mind can solve puzzles, an IQ test, or remember information, however, thoughts and the mind only cloud over real intelligence, love and light from our soul.