Tag: relationships

We look to engineer

Posted on by philipdodson

People are always searching for ways to fix or heal relationships or friendships, for example, a way to engineer an outcome to get things to be a certain way that there ego or mind wants.

There lies the problem, if it does not evolve through letting things be and letting go, then it is not meant to be and is not natural. Things that are engineered are not genuine, they are negative and of no soulful substance.

Relationships, friendships, work, life situations and so on, if they are forced, if there is pressure, manipulation, coercion they will never last. When we are 100% genuinely ourselves, conscious, and at peace, then true connection with other souls comes. There is a positive flow of energy, the universe works its magic, things unfold.

We look to engineer, yet we should leave things to be and see what comes.

We imprison ourselves

Posted on by philipdodson

We build a life through our own imagined self-image and imprison ourselves in it. We stay stuck in jobs, with friends, with partners and so on, fearing to break free, fearing to upset, fearing to be our true selves. We go against our true self, we resist it, we allow ourselves to be trapped in our self-created imaginary life.

We become attached to things and people, and even when we instinctively want to do something or get rid of something, we stay trapped in the attachment we have built. We do not accept that every form is temporary and we are flowing on a journey. Not everything has to be there forever, we can move on from things, people, jobs and so on.

Freedom is being truly ourselves and not being attached or dependent on things or others.