We want the cure not the responsibility for fixing something ourselves. The easy fix, the shortcut, making it someone else’s fault and/or responsibility.
Everything in life is a choice right now this moment and all our choices have consequences including not taking responsibility for ourselves.
We are conditioned so that our default position is what is wrong?
Maybe, we can unlearn to stop looking for right or wrong, just accepting what is and observing the unfolding of life and others without evaluation.
Not any easy thing to achieve, but surely worth pursuing versus always finding fault or looking for superiority in being right.