We look to engineer

People are always searching for ways to fix or heal relationships or friendships, for example, a way to engineer an outcome to get things to be a certain way that there ego or mind wants.

There lies the problem, if it does not evolve through letting things be and letting go, then it is not meant to be and is not natural. Things that are engineered are not genuine, they are negative and of no soulful substance.

Relationships, friendships, work, life situations and so on, if they are forced, if there is pressure, manipulation, coercion they will never last. When we are 100% genuinely ourselves, conscious, and at peace, then true connection with other souls comes. There is a positive flow of energy, the universe works its magic, things unfold.

We look to engineer, yet we should leave things to be and see what comes.

The beginning of the end

When we let go of everything, like the need to be right, like attachments to everything and everyone, when we let go of our mind and the ego, then all the pressure in life goes with it.

This is true freedom. This is peace.

To get to this point is a journey, a practice, a change in habits, a choice, a willingness to allow things not to bother us. A decision to be present in this moment and not live in the past or project into the future. Consciousness leads to freedom.

However, once we start down the path, it is the beginning of the end of the daily suffering we put ourselves through, as once we see the light it brings to us we do not ever want to go back to the darkness of our minds.

Got to be worth a try.