Angry

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Anger often is caused by our frustrations with ourselves. This then gets expressed outwardly towards others and anything that we can latch onto.

Unfortunately, the society we have encourages hate, judgement and fear. As a consequence, it is easy to find things or people to vent our anger on.

Anger is a complete waste of time, it never makes us feel good, even after venting it, and the recipient, often ourselves, never feels good either.

It is all to do with our sense of worthiness. If we could only tell ourselves that we are already worthy, no matter what we have achieved, no matter what others think and no matter what we have or don’t have.

This where it starts. Loving ourselves, instead of being angry or frustrated. We have to be our own No1 fan, our own cheerleader, we have to accept ourselves and say we are already good enough.

If we love ourselves, feel worthy and accept ourselves, then there is no room for anger and the pedlars of hate, fear, judgement in society will have one less recruit for their cause.

If it feels like hard work

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If something you are doing, or a relationship/friendship, in fact anything, if it feels like hard work, forced or it does not come naturally, then it’s not worth continuing.

If it feels like an effort, if it feels like you’re the one who’s trying and not the other, if your work feels like a struggle, if whatever you are doing just feels like a challenge, it’s because it is not right.

The things, people or activities we love never feel like hard work if they are truly right. Loving something or someone is natural thing, a joy, and never a struggle. You want to do it more than anything else.

Once you find the right thing, person, activity, or work, yes you have to value it, cherish, nurture and spend time.However, it will never be a burden or a chore, it will never drain your energy.

Yet so many spend their lives fighting what they love to continue the struggle.

Don’t struggle, be with people you love, do things that are a joy.

Do what comes instinctively and naturally.